This blog is all about things to do in your 30s.
Turning thirty can sneak up on you. Suddenly, you notice you’re getting older, time is speeding by, and you’ve hit a point where you feel more grown-up. It’s a time to figure out who you are, set boundaries, and create goals for what you want to achieve.
Let’s dive into this journey of self-discovery and explore the possibilities that come with this new chapter.
First, I want to welcome you to the new decade of your life.
This big milestone welcomes us with open arms into what many promise should be our best decade. When I look back at the road trips of my carefree 20s, I feel grateful for the fun I had, but now it’s time to look forward to the fulfilling life we want to build. It feels like the perfect moment to slow down and set intentions for your next decade.
Key Takeaways:
Let’s talk about something that might not give you the same immediate gratification as a freshly brewed cup of morning coffee, but trust me, it’s even more important—starting your retirement plan and finally creating a budget.
I know it’s boring, and I don’t want to act like your dad, but we’re in our 30s now, and this is the perfect time to lay the groundwork for a financially secure future. We are doing the grown-up things!
I know diving into the world of insurance, 401ks, and mortgages can feel like you’re trying to decode an ancient language. But here’s the truth: understanding these financial products is your ticket to a stress-free later life.
Think about it. The sooner you start saving and paying off your credit card debt, the more you’ll thank yourself later. It’s about creating a safety net that lets you sleep peacefully at night, knowing you’re covered for whatever life throws your way. My mom always told me when I grow up to have my own money, even if I have a rich husband. And you know what, the older I get, the more I realize she was right.
So, let’s embrace this essential step together, diving headfirst into our financial well-being. It’s not just about surviving our golden years; it’s about thriving in them. And believe me, your future self will look back at this decision and high-five you across the decades.
It’s time to shift the gears towards a more conscious lifestyle, especially regarding your physical and mental health.
I don’t know about you, but I finally realized the importance of creating healthy habits after turning thirty. I love practicing habit stacking and always look for ways to achieve more by doing less.
In this stage of our lives, developing healthy habits becomes not just an option but a necessity. I like to think about this as creating a personalized wellness plan perfectly tailored to my body’s and mind’s needs. It’s about embracing a balanced diet, where each meal is full of nutrients and flavors that fuel you for the exciting journey ahead.
Also, let’s remember the magic of regular exercise to keep you energized and focused. I switched from high-intensity and running to doing my walks, pilates, and yoga. Working 9 to 5 left me with little energy, so I’m doing what I can now. So choose whatever exercise works for you; even just going for daily walks is much better than not doing anything.
In the quiet moments, prioritize your peace of mind with mental health care. Whether journaling to express your thoughts, meditation to find your center, or simply taking a moment to breathe deeply and appreciate the now — it’s all about nurturing your inner self. Spend a few minutes each morning practicing daily affirmations and visualizing your future to center yourself, which will help transform your life.
By focusing on your mental and physical health, you will learn how to take care of your health and yourself and will build a foundation to feel good for the rest of your life.
Turning 30 opens up a new chapter in our lives, one where nurturing meaningful relationships should take priority.
It’s about investing time and energy into those connections that truly enhance our lives, whether family or friends. I’ve learned that it’s crucial to set healthy boundaries at work and home, ensuring that we maintain our well-being while fostering relationships that bring us joy and fulfillment. We are all busy, and life can be hard, so emphasizing quality over quantity has never been more important. It’s not about how many people we know but rather about the depth and significance of those connections.
The joy of creating and maintaining lasting connections with people who make you laugh, have shared memories with, and mutually support each other is the best thing we can do for ourselves.
Diving into your 30s might feel like stepping onto an accelerator you can’t control, but here’s a secret to making it your best decade: dedicate time to exploring new hobbies, learning new skills, and maybe even starting your own business.
Think of this period as a new era that you have full control of and can finally live your life the exact way YOU want to live, not how other people or society tell you to live. Whether picking up a guitar, trying your hand at pottery, taking dancing lessons, or coding your first app, each new skill carves out a part of you that you never knew existed.
Starting on the journey of a startup can redefine your sense of achievement and resilience. If you are like me, you now feel more confident in your abilities and skills, so it’s time to take a leap and start that new business or a side hustle that you always wanted to pursue.
Remember, it’s not about being the best; it’s about becoming more of who you are and discovering passions that resonate with your soul.
So, get up, start moving, and let’s turn the ‘what ifs’ into ‘I can and I will.’
Have you ever felt like your world is shrinking as the numbers on your birthday cake grow? Well, let me tell you, your 30s are the perfect time to flip that script.
Not only is exploring the world a thrilling way to rack up new life experiences, but it’s also a golden ticket to personal growth. Imagine swapping your daily grind for a road trip through landscapes you’ve only seen in magazines. Or picture yourself mingling with locals, diving into cultures so rich and diverse they color your perspective with their traditions and tales.
Traveling to new places isn’t just about the Instagram-worthy sunsets or the exotic dishes that dance on your taste buds; it’s about the stories you’ll tell, the memories you’ll cherish, and the person you’ll become. Each stamp on your passport is a step towards a broader, more enriched life view.
So, why stay in a box when the world offers you an entire playground? Dive into different cultures, embrace the unknown, and let your 30s be the decade where you truly discover what it means to be part of this vast, beautiful world.
I know you’re sitting at your desk, eyes glued to the computer screen, fingers typing away furiously. The clock ticks past yet another late hour, but the to-do list seems endless. Sounds familiar? It’s easy to let our career ambitions take the driver’s seat, especially in our 30s when we’re eager to prove ourselves and climb that ladder of success.
But here’s the thing — balance is key.
Let me tell you, striking that perfect equilibrium between your professional pursuits and personal life is nothing short of an art form. It’s about carving out time for those you love, indulging in hobbies that light you up, and ensuring you’re not just living but thriving. Having this balance ensures a well-rounded and deeply satisfying life experience, where neither aspect feels neglected.
It’s about setting boundaries — knowing when to shut off that work email and immerse yourself in the present moment, whether on a dinner date with friends or a peaceful evening solo with your favorite book. It’s the realization that life’s full beauty unfolds in these moments of balance. So, as we navigate our 30s, let’s commit not just to achieving greatness in our careers but also to cultivating a rich, vibrant personal life.
After all, the best version of ourselves thrives when we laugh, love, and feel the joy of life’s simple pleasures.
Imagine walking into a room with soft, natural light, where every piece in your space sparks a little jolt of joy.
This isn’t just a daydream. It’s the transformative power of embracing simplicity in our cluttered world. In our 30s, decluttering offers an oasis of mental clarity and productivity as we navigate the myriad of responsibilities and commitments. It’s like we’re peeling away layers of noise to reveal the essence of what truly matters.
Let’s talk about a trendy yet profoundly impactful approach: the capsule wardrobe. It’s not just about fashion. It’s a lifestyle choice that reduces stress. Imagine each morning opening a closet curated with only the things you love and wear. It makes getting ready not just easy but fun.
Minimalist living goes beyond just clothes. It’s about surrounding ourselves with things that serve a purpose or bring us happiness, nothing more. This practice encourages us to focus on the richness of experiences rather than the quantity of possessions, guiding us toward what’s truly important in life.
So, put on a YouTube Marie Condo documentary, open your closet, and declutter. Donate or sell those pieces that no longer serve that new, elevated you that you are becoming.
The joy, ease, and open mental spaces we create through this simplicity are like a balm for the soul, readying us to face the world with open arms and a clear mind.
In your 30s, you start thinking more about leaving a legacy behind and giving back.
Life is not just about accumulating wealth or reaching personal milestones. It’s about the legacy we leave behind, the wisdom we impart, and the paths we pave for those stepping into their own journeys.
In this decade of my life, I’ve found immense fulfillment in mentoring young minds, providing guidance, and sharing the hard lessons I’ve navigated. You can do this easily at work by mentoring younger employees, starting an advice TikTok column, or even a blog. You can also help out and mentor in your local communities.
Being a role model isn’t about showcasing a perfect life but demonstrating resilience, kindness, and the courage to pursue big goals. I encourage you to open your heart and embrace mentoring with open arms. Share the good and the tough. It goes a long way in shaping a fulfilling life for you and those who follow. Our investment doesn’t require a big house or a fancy title. It starts with simple things like listening, showing compassion, and being present.
Choose what works for you, give back in a way that feels natural to you, and you will feel great fulfillment knowing you are helping others.
Stepping into my 30s, I’ve realized it’s not just another year, it’s a whole new chapter of my life.
Turning 30 has often been portrayed as a milestone birthday filled with dread and the haunt of unmet expectations. Yet, here I am, recognizing it as the best time to embrace many opportunities for personal growth, meaningful relationships, and the pursuit of fulfilling life experiences.
It’s a chance to set new goals, invest in personal relationships, and commit to healthy habits to ensure we create and live our dream lives.
I know it can all feel overwhelming, but isn’t it exciting to think of all the first times that lie ahead? The first time you might step out of your comfort zone to start your own business, organize a birthday party that’s more about celebrating the people you love, or even decide to explore new hobbies that could include anything from assembling a capsule wardrobe for a new year to mastering a new skill. Each step and each decision paves the way for a richer, more profound journey.
So, here’s to embracing this new decade with a heart full of enthusiasm.
Let’s welcome these years as the best way to challenge ourselves, discover new places, cherish simple things, and build a legacy we can be proud of.
With a mix of ambitious dreams and grounded realities, I’m ready to get on this adventure, welcoming and manifesting all the good things with open arms. Because in the end, thriving at 30 is all about accepting life’s invitations with a smile and a spirit of adventure.
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